RED LETTER: DON’T JUDGE ME – DISCERNMENT AND JUDGEMENT IN THE CHRISTIAN LIFE

We often hear the phrase, "Don't judge me!" thrown around, especially among young people. It's a concept that's become deeply ingrained in our culture, but what does it truly mean to judge others? How does this relate to our Christian faith? In this blog post, we will jump into the teachings of Jesus from Matthew 7:1-6 and explore the delicate balance between discernment and judgment.

“Do not judge, or you too will be judged. For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you. “Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother’s eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye? How can you say to your brother, ‘Let me take the speck out of your eye,’ when all the time there is a plank in your own eye? You hypocrite, first take the plank out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother’s eye. “Do not give dogs what is sacred; do not throw your pearls to pigs. If you do, they may trample them under their feet, and turn and tear you to pieces. (Matthew 7:1-6).

Understanding the Origins of "Don't Judge Me"

The phrase "Don't judge me" has become a cultural catchphrase, often used as a defense against perceived criticism or moral judgment. It's important to recognize that this phrase's popularity isn't merely coincidental. It's linked to societal shifts in how we approach individuality, self-expression, and morality. In a world where immoral choices are celebrated, the idea of judgment can be seen as a threat to these values.

In some cases, the phrase might be used defensively when someone's choices or actions are met with disapproval, but in others, it might simply be an expression of individuality and a desire for acceptance. Understanding the context and motivations behind this phrase can help us respond with empathy and love, aligning our actions with the teachings of Jesus.

The Meaning of "Do Not Judge"

In Matthew 7:1, Jesus instructs us not to judge others, lest we be judged ourselves. However, it's essential to understand what Jesus means by "judging." It doesn't mean we should refrain from discernment altogether. Discernment is the ability to differentiate between right and wrong, a necessary skill for wise decision-making.

Discernment is the practice of evaluating situations, actions, or beliefs based on a moral or ethical framework. It's about making informed and thoughtful decisions, distinguishing between what aligns with our biblical values and what doesn't. Discernment is an integral part of leading a righteous and godly life.

In contrast, judgment often carries a negative connotation. It involves forming harsh or critical opinions about others based on their actions or choices. Judgment, as described in Matthew 7:1, suggests a self-righteous attitude that condemns others without self-reflection or humility.

Recognizing the Plank in Our Own Eye

Before we judge others, Jesus encourages us to remove the plank from our own eyes. This teaching urges us to be reflective and self-aware. It's easy to criticize others while neglecting our own shortcomings, but we must learn to practice self-reflection.

Self-reflection is a vital component of spiritual growth. It's a process that allows us to acknowledge our own flaws, weaknesses, and the areas where we need growth. By addressing our own issues first, we become better equipped to extend grace and support to others.

The act of removing the plank from our own eye is a humbling experience. It reminds us that none of us are perfect, and we all require God's grace. It also prevents us from adopting a self-righteous attitude when dealing with the shortcomings of others.

As Christians, we live in a tension between discernment and judgment. We are called to discern right from wrong, but we should avoid becoming critical or condemnatory of others. Discernment looks toward redemption and restoration, whereas judgment based on arrogance and pride seeks to belittle and destroy.

Balancing discernment with compassion is a challenging endeavor. It requires us to recognize the sin in our own lives and address it before addressing the sins of others. It also necessitates empathy and a focus on redemption rather than condemnation.

Sharing the Gospel with Love and Discernment

The gospel is a message of love, hope, and redemption. When we share it, we should do so to lead others to Christ, not condemn them for their choices. By examining our own lives and removing the plank from our own eyes, we can approach others with humility, empathy, and a sincere desire to see them experience the transforming power of Christ's love.

To avoid a critical and judgmental attitude, we must recognize that it often stems from a critical heart. This critical heart often results from misunderstanding God's grace, leading us to set unattainable standards and judge others accordingly. We become more merciful and compassionate toward others when we understand our need for grace.

The Role of God's Grace in Our Lives

Recognizing the depth of God's grace in our own lives can transform our attitudes toward others. When we acknowledge that we are all recipients of God's unmerited favor, we are more likely to extend that same grace to others. It's crucial to remember that we are all sinners saved by grace, and this realization can foster a more compassionate and understanding approach to those around us.

In a world that often urges us not to judge, it's crucial for Christians to strike a balance between discernment and judgment. Jesus's teachings in Matthew 7:1-6 remind us to examine our lives before we judge others. We must be discerning, but our discernment should always be infused with love and hope, seeking the redemption and restoration of those around us. As we navigate this balance, let's remember that we are all recipients of God's grace and should extend that grace to others. Doing so can create a more loving and understanding community where the gospel message is shared with compassion and humility.

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